Mostly Harmless"Do not let the endless succession of small things crowd great ideals out of sight and out of mind" Charlotte Mason
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Original: 6/2/2009 1:13 PM
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Tuesday, June 02, 2009

Where do I begin?

 

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I have confessed before that I really struggle with being a good housekeeper.  I have needed to train myself through the years and constantly backslide in my standards for cleanliness.

There are “seasons” in my life when I have made good progress in this area and have maintained my home in a sufficient manner.  There have even been a couple of “seasons” when I was manager of my home enough that my children were on the ball – doing a lot of the housekeeping along side of me. 

THIS is not one of those “seasons”!

I have really let the ball drop as far as the children’s chores and my own.

 

            I certainly have many legitimate (in my own eyes!) reasons to have spent my time elsewhere- things that were higher on the priority list, that have taken much time and physical as well as emotional energy. But that is more often the case than not, isn’t it?

 I’ve let my housekeeping lapse.  We’ve been keeping up on the laundry- mostly, and making our meals- though we have made far too many convenience meals, and our academic lessons have continued-until we took a break.  So, even our necessary tasks have been suffering.  This is surely not the way to be faithful in my God-given tasks in life! 

 

            I have learned over the years that this phenomenon - gradually letting everything slide until it is all screaming for attention has often preceded a change in direction for my housekeeping.  Something that was working before isn’t, anymore.  It is time to change my routines, or methods or look at some training that hasn’t happened (in myself, or my children). 

 

            So, we are taking a mini vacation from schoolwork so that I can pray and plan and work.  It’s time to overhaul our routines and assess what training is lacking in the kids, or what has lapsed that must be taken up again. 

            We are spending time deep cleaning rooms and getting back to our daily chore charts.  The kids have a little more free time and I’m spending time on paperwork – long range lesson planning, book lists to take to the annual home educator’s convention and slogging through old files, etc.

 

            There’s so much to do like the above mentioned that there is no way that we are going to get it all done in the planned two weeks I’ve taken off (we are in the second week now!)  So, one of my tasks is to find a way to fit those big maintenance jobs into our regular routine.  This has always been a challenge for me! 

 

Question: How do you manage to keep all your plates in the air and make sure things like deep cleaning, culling your files, mending, organizing and do ahead type things (i.e. gifts, meals, planning for special occasions) get done?

 

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I got a house cleaner. :)

Actually, it works for me. She does the stuff like wipe down all the cabinets every week in the kitchen, and she vacuums and mops the whole house, and cleans the bathroom. This means I can do the stuff like clearing out a drawer that's turned into a junk drawer, or culling files, or bookshelves, or whatever. (I can well imagine that your house is overrun by books all the time, as is ours. Jeepers - I think they self-propagate!

Meals are still not a thing we can plan. If I feel up to it, I start dinner, and usually Faron finishes putting it on the table when he gets home. Otherwise, we eat whatever he feels like doing. We do try to plan out what that might be, but for now, we've been relying on the hotdogs and hamburgers leftover from our party here. I think we have everything we need for a stir-fry tonight, so at least I have a plan.

With my illness, which primarily keeps me from doing any real cleaning, I'm completely free to do all the things that bog most households down. I had plenty of time to plan the reception, for example, and at least once a week I try to get after one of those long-term type things. The top of my desk has been crying out for my attention for weeks, and I've managed to keep myself busy enough to put it off. LOL! It really MUST get done. It looks awful. Not sure how helpful any of that is, but it's what we do.

And thanks a lot for your title. The theme from "Love Story" is stuck into my head.

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Posted 6/2/2009 4:25 PM by presby2 Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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Sorry about the "song worm"... It is a help to think about what is absolutely necessary. I'm sure that you have to do that, Cindy. With only a few spoons, you have to make sure that you do what you can that must get done and have your trusty helpers do what is leftover of the "must-dos".
Posted 6/2/2009 4:44 PM by MargaretinVa - reply

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Ahh! Honey! You know what I think? Your just feeling normal. When you have a lot of irons in the fire at one time ,this is bound to happen. Or maybe it's some thing that runs  in our blood line only.!.I remember thinking " I really ought to have started this other chore first", it is really more important. It's hard to divide yourself in to all that needs done" right now!?


         My Husband used to say" Don't stress about it, It/ not going to run away" I said "Yeh I know, That's my problem. 


         Hope our Little Emma is doing better by now. She's so sweet .Gaelan has very good taste! And I'm sure he knows that by now..  .l/u all  - 

Posted 6/4/2009 11:21 AM by rosechris - reply


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